I'm a trans girl and Starsi is so perfect for me! I have various hangups regarding sex due to various traumas, and I couldn't be happier with my Starsi. It's not phallus shaped which is a huge bonus for me, but its arms can still fit the various curves and nooks of my body. The vibrator is super quiet and stunningly strong! I love all the different vibration settings. And the material is so so so soft and yet so easy to clean! I have never felt a sex toy as soft feeling as this one. I also have severe lupus and it's the worst in my hands, but Starsi is so easy to use and I don't have to deal with shots of pain distracting me.