We've mentioned in the past the tendency to desexualize folks based upon their age, ability, gender, race, or size. One segment of the community we didn't mention is those who have been diagnosed with and are living with an STI.
Our next community member to take center stage is Al. Al is a passionate and playful person who loves to snuggle with her dog and her partner, spend quality time with loved ones, play board and card games, read romantic novels, eat yummy food, and have passionate conversations.
There are so many ways to give and receive pleasure, but homing in what really brings you pleasure isn't a one-time thing. The way we view and experience our sexuality can change over time.