Pump the brakes on your orgasm!? (I dare you to try!)

It sometimes seems like sex is a race to the finish line. 

And by finish line, I mean orgasm. 

And if you don’t get there, you clearly didn’t win.

But if that’s what winning is, I’d rather come in last.

An orgasm is only one way to feel good. And if you rush toward it, you miss out on all the other sources of pleasure that exist in your body.

Instead of sprinting toward an imagined finish line, what if your only goal when you climbed into bed was… enjoying each moment as it happened?

I Dare You: See how slow you can go.

When you slow down during sex, you give yourself the chance to truly feel each sensation. The sights. The sounds. The smells. The tastes. Each pleasurable touch.

Next time you take your cute little fucker to bed with you—solo or with another play partner—see how slow you can go. 

Don’t zoom your way straight to the genitals. Use your toy to awaken every other nerve in your body, noticing how different types of touch feel, allowing your arousal to slowly build.

You could even experiment with edging, bringing yourself to the precipice of orgasm, and then backing away.

But this isn’t about that. This is about taking your time, being playful and curious, and creating new roadmap for how your body experiences pleasure.

How slow can you go… and how much will you learn about yourself in the process?

Unwind with a new  toy.