In our last email, which featured Kmo’s story, we saw that as we learn more about our sexuality, sex play can be an even more joyful experience.
But how do we take what we learn and bring it to our partner play, creating a safe, fun and affirming space to explore with others?
It all comes down to communication.
After all, we can’t read each other’s minds.
If mutually pleasurable sex with others is the goal, we have to ask for what we want. And we have to find out what they enjoy, too. How?