Exercise: How many vibes can you find?

Pleasure is a funny thing. No one of us experiences it in quite the same way as anyone else. And across our lifespans, we may even find that the things that bring us pleasure change and evolve.

I think that’s what makes it so much fun.

Every time we approach sexual play—either on our own or with others—there’s the potential to discover something new about ourselves. About our bodies.

What’s your vibe when it comes to sexual pleasure?

The exercise below will help you figure that out.

Exercise: How Many Vibes Can You Find?

Each one of our cute little fuckers has the potential to teach you something new. I challenge you to see how many different sensations you can experience with your toy.

Take a look at its shape. At its bumps and ridges. At its various appendages.

Then turn on your toy and see how its various surfaces feel when held against different parts of your body, at different intensities and with different patterns of vibration.

For example, did you know that each of Starsi’s tentacle tips vibrates at a different intensity? Rotate Starsi to try them all and see which one feels best. Or focus on the smooth expanse of Starsi’s back, which provides a more sprawling sensation.

Or try out the tips of Princette’s tentacles for gentle pinpoint play. For a more intense vibration, flip them over and use the tippy-top of their head.